tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7190144653162636685.post8293827955398272315..comments2023-07-07T06:21:48.659-05:00Comments on My Scarlet baby: Hard weekendMissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10030801926318157162noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7190144653162636685.post-64714809717054447462010-02-16T14:18:57.675-06:002010-02-16T14:18:57.675-06:00Honestly I think I would have left the room in all...Honestly I think I would have left the room in all the situations. I really do not understand how your mother can be so oblivious to how these types of conversations could be painful to you!!<br /><br />I wouldn't worry about the grandma bond though I am sure she will have it whether your first child is adopted or not. <br /><br />(hugs)Ashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08436636731066211849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7190144653162636685.post-64605797062573410662010-02-16T10:29:07.276-06:002010-02-16T10:29:07.276-06:00Ugh, that sounds super-rough. You are a trooper fo...Ugh, that sounds super-rough. You are a trooper for surviving it. Those conversations are so hard, and it's just the worst when you have no escape. ((hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7190144653162636685.post-16386048716727552712010-02-16T08:38:43.088-06:002010-02-16T08:38:43.088-06:00Sounds like a bit of a nightmare weekend which was...Sounds like a bit of a nightmare weekend which was probably the last thing that you needed. Families!Secret Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02864030958537218351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7190144653162636685.post-1520683888148579632010-02-16T01:55:14.973-06:002010-02-16T01:55:14.973-06:00i am so sorry that you had such a rough weekend. ...i am so sorry that you had such a rough weekend. there is really nothing worse than being stuck in those conversations. i learned a long time ago to never get stuck in the corner or to fake stomach issues.<br /><br />as for the adoption thing, i can tell you as an adopted child there is really very little difference in the bond. my mother has a bio child, my younger sister, and an adopted, me, and there was never any difference in the bonding between anyone in our family and either of us. if anything my family feels closer to me than my sister. really, it comes down to personality and has very little to do with how you get into the family.Jaymeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386596837111351204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7190144653162636685.post-30040665380821126032010-02-16T00:12:54.261-06:002010-02-16T00:12:54.261-06:00That does sound like a really difficult weekend! :...That does sound like a really difficult weekend! :( It's tough throwing mom issues in with IF issues - I know. Thinking of you.<br /><br />makingmemom.blogspot.comHillaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01315741098772456270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7190144653162636685.post-57842212746454613262010-02-15T21:20:29.781-06:002010-02-15T21:20:29.781-06:00I'm sorry to hear about your rough weekend. I&...I'm sorry to hear about your rough weekend. I'm also sorry that your mom is not sensitive to your feelings with all the talk about your nieces and nephews. That must have been hard. <br />Just remember, if you do decide to pursue adoption, it's YOUR decision. Your mom will come around and love that child as if he/she were your biological child. I know it.Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02010422089639320117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7190144653162636685.post-39643290230626855042010-02-15T21:10:49.848-06:002010-02-15T21:10:49.848-06:00I'm sorry that you had such a rough weekend. ...I'm sorry that you had such a rough weekend. I wish that you didn't have to go through any of that.Emmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02378761861553074475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7190144653162636685.post-60950691723853438862010-02-15T20:09:34.483-06:002010-02-15T20:09:34.483-06:00Sorry to hear about the rough weekend. People loo...Sorry to hear about the rough weekend. People looking in to the IF life just don't get it....and that includes mothers...my own included. I just draw hard and fast lines with my mom that were not to be crossed. Have you tried telling her when she talks about things like that that it is painful for you?Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07940941920731395231noreply@blogger.com